How to get over jealousy of a friend?
My Best Friend from kindergarten has everything I have ever wanted… almost, pretty much. My best friend got pregnant on accident two years ago and had a beautiful baby boy then got married to the guy. They have everything handed to them from their parents, trips to vegas, trips to georgia, a house, cars, etc. They go out and buy new laptops like every other week. They have a nice big t.v. and not one but they recently bought a second new car. They are still in school and neither work 40hr weeks. So basically tax payers are buying them their food, health care, etc. And to top it all off they came out last week that they are going to go ahead and try to have another baby, which my husband and I are desperately already trying to conceive our first. I know life is not fair, but damn, we are stable, own a mortgage, and we cant get any breaks. I try to count my blessings and know that they are in serious debt from credit cards and student loans. (but I know somehow they will weasel their way out of paying for them) that their marriage is not very good, while I got married for love, they got married bcs they had to/no one else would have them. (which makes me angry they are trying to have another baby) But it is getting to the point it is hard for me to to around them/talk to them at all. Something must be wrong with me. Is there anything I can do to get over the "green eyed monster"? I dont want to lose my friend, its not like I have friends to spare.
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Don’t worry so much about what they have and what you don’t, you said that your stable in you marriage and your home be happy for what you have not for what you don’t. That’s material things they have you can’t take any of that with you when you die so enjoy life and spend less time with being jealous. Try to adopt there are beautiful children out there of all ages. Live, love and enjoy!!!
You are not going to find you can ger over this unless you stop comparing your life to hers. If she is a true friend such things would make you happy not resentful and it points out that somewhere you are unhappy.
You say she married cos no one else would take her, so you are saying her mariage is superficial yet on the same note you have listed all the material possessions she has aquired lately , so really you are basing your jelousy on superficial things too .
In time things will get better for you. If your friend is in dept then thats really no concern of you, you have to concentrate on improving your own life. From history I can tell you that houses , jobs, husbands, kids , things come and go but at the end of the day only your friendship is stable-if you want ti to be.
Start enjoying life and forget about her life and in the mean time start setting a goal to achieve, like saving up to go on holiday. it will get your mind off things.
don’t worry so much because watch when they in debt and your going to be wealthy and stuff
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