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How to get over jealousy of a friend?

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My Best Friend from kindergarten has everything I have ever wanted… almost, pretty much. My best friend got pregnant on accident two years ago and had a beautiful baby boy then got married to the guy. They have everything handed to them from their parents, trips to vegas, trips to georgia, a house, cars, etc. They go out and buy new laptops like every other week. They have a nice big t.v. and not one but they recently bought a second new car. They are still in school and neither work 40hr weeks. So basically tax payers are buying them their food, health care, etc. And to top it all off they came out last week that they are going to go ahead and try to have another baby, which my husband and I are desperately already trying to conceive our first. I know life is not fair, but damn, we are stable, own a mortgage, and we cant get any breaks. I try to count my blessings and know that they are in serious debt from credit cards and student loans. (but I know somehow they will weasel their way out of paying for them) that their marriage is not very good, while I got married for love, they got married bcs they had to/no one else would have them. (which makes me angry they are trying to have another baby) But it is getting to the point it is hard for me to to around them/talk to them at all. Something must be wrong with me. Is there anything I can do to get over the "green eyed monster"? I dont want to lose my friend, its not like I have friends to spare.


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If you want to purchase a fixer upper, how do you get a loan for both the purchase price plus cost of remodel?

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For example, if a sales price is ,000 and the property needs ,000 in remodeling and/or repairs, at the time you purchase the home can you get a mortgage for the total amount? Or, is it typically two separate loans that you can’t get at the same time? Just looking for information on how all this works.
Also, maybe I should add — I’m speaking specifically about purchasing a foreclosed home, where the property value may be greater than the sales price.


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